Most people who are single and see many having in-matured breakdown in their relationship begin to wonder why, how, they even feel they could protect the relationship.Most feel that they are better than others that are even getting married, but yet no one is coming for them.
Checking the bank account of every guy can never get you hooked up, rather you will remain single and rich.Most ladies today, simply because they are rich so therefore every guy they want to date has to meet up with their class.This is really dangerous, as you are only paving the way to be single and unhappy.Let remind you that marriage is not all about status and wealth marriage is about love and trust.Not wanting a guy who is more richer than you that do not guarantee a good relationship, rather it improves competition.
2.Showing him he's the one for you:
Most ladies today, when a guy approaches you and want to get to know more about you, you are too forward the next thing you say is "my missing rib, "my future husband" my friend stop it!. The guy will only be suspicious and run away.Don't blame him if he runs, of course you gave a wrong signal.
3.Going on a blind date:
Hmm...this really caught up my mind having found out, that most desperate ladies go on a blind date with guys they do not know only to find out he's not their choice of guy.Lol...there was this lady who met a guy on a social media dating site, she didn't bother checking his pictures, they fixed a date and she practically went there only for her to find out that he was "john umueze" that's a local looking guy and she was up and down disappointed.This could really discourage a lady.
Wow! you feel you can really keep him with sex? if you like display acrobatics on bed, karate on bed or be a tigress on bed one fact is that you can never keep a guy with sex rather your only laying a bad foundation for that relationship.When you have sex with him, he feels that you also give the same thing to other guys, he will take you cheap and there's a probability he can leave.
5.Being over engaged in work activities:
Your always busy, you don't care about having fun with your man, you may be attractive, successful but undateable because you take your career much more important than your relationship.Most of you practically get married to your job and loose your relationship yet you complain of being single.
6.Comparing him with other men:
You should never compare another with another.It is really stupid to do so, rather talk to him, encourage him and love him more.But if you continue you are liable to loose that guy.
When he tend to loose most things in life, you don't encourage you move forward rather you make jest of his failures and compare him with other successful guys.If you do this you'll always remain single because no guy loves such, infact you are just an enemy.
You are faithful, you are beautiful, you dress to kill, you are humble, you are kind, everyone loves you...yeah yeah you are all those mentioned above but you tell lies even when it's not necessary.Your dad is this, your mum is that, my friend guys know when a lady lie.Even if you are trying to protect your relationship with lies, it is not proper you are laying a bad foundation.There are lies you'll tell that would eventually make you single.
9.Being a pest:
You can actually be a pest, every time you call him, you suspect him.You always want to know where he is.You don't give him space.Every guy wants his own privacy.Don't be a pest to him and call it care.
When you are always jealous when he talks to a girl and you pick up a fight with him you are being over protective and it's really dangerous.There was a girl who poured acid on her fiancees sister when he wanted to introduce her as his sister she didn't bother listening all for jealousy she took action thinking he was cheating.Having the mentality that all men are liars, cheaters and animals can never never make a happy relationship rather it'll make you single.
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